Nezar Al Nezari
Loving someone at first sight is a question that makes you wonder, could it be true! Well actually, I believe it's hard to be true, because love doesn't just explode at the first look or appearance. Love has deep emotions and feelings that gradually develop in people hearts.
At first sight there is an attraction between two souls but it doesn't mean love. They begin to like, watch and notice each other in every move and smile, witnessing together romantic moments with feelings of happiness and excitement, counting the seconds when they are away from each other and forgetting time when they are together.
As an example I see this beautiful girl and I am so stunned by her beauty and so attracted to her, but still my feelings toward her aren't clear until I get to know her and spend some time with her, and get familiar with her personality and attitude. Then, our emotions are beginning to combine and we have a lot in common. At that time I realize that in this person I might find true love.
Falling in love with someone and finding a true soul mate takes a long time usually, because you cannot judge people on sight. You have to enter their lives and get to know them better, sense their soul and heart and what they are truly made of. That is why people can be heart broken, when they rush, and fall in love spontaneously without considering the circumstances that might result out of a relationship.
Rushing into love has never been a good option but taking it seriously and rationally may lead to a wonderful and romantic relationship that may last forever.
We can't judge people on sight!! That's right!! I agree!!
ReplyDeleteI think when we look beautiful girl and are attracted, this is not "love" but "like". It doesn't become "love" yet. In order to get true love, we need to know each other and spend more time.